So, you have finally tried phone dating and it turns out you love it because it’s easy to make quick connections that you feel really get you as a person. You may have had several different kinds of phone friends by this point or you may be brand new to the world of phone dating. So, let’s say you meet someone over the chat lines that’s shyer or reserved then the past people you have met over the telephone. You may wonder what you can say or do to help them to feel comfortable with you and open up about their interests or what they want to explore on the chat lines. This person may be brand new to the concept of phone dating and may be nervous as how to start. I am sure you remember your first phone date. It may have been weird for you or perhaps you are a natural over the chat lines. Either way, this article is intended to help that person who is shy to open up and how you can help them do just that.

One way to make any person comfortable as well as allowing them to know you care about who they are and what they like, is to ask open-ended questions. This not only shows you are interested in getting to know them better but also allows them the chance to share with you whatever they feel like talking about. Open ended questions allow the conversation to keep moving forward. It’s not calling for one worded answers but allows you insight into how your new phone friend communicates.

Another way to help a person open up with you is to practice active listening. When you do this, it helps the other person on the phone feel comfortable with you because it gives a sense that you care about what is being communicated.