When you aren’t conventionally hot or you have a little extra tubb around the middle or anywhere really, you may feel pretty self conscious about dating. It’s only natural that you would feel that way because most dating is based on how you look, not who you are as a person. You have to have the best pictures online so people will swipe on your profile and then they will want to go out with you. However, if you’re not very photogenic what can you do? Well, you can definitely chat for free. This is using something called a chatline to talk to people on the phone. Then your dating efforts will be based on what you have to say – not what you look like. You can overcome your confidence issues and emerge at the end of the day confident and with a date.

However, even if you do chat for free and don’t feel your confidence surging, you should rest assured that there are plenty of celebrities who are a bit chunky or maybe even wouldn’t do well on an online dating site that was based on swiping on hot images. Just think of Adele, Melissa McCarthy or Kirstie Alley. These women are large and in charge and they are totally hot too! Partially because they are beautiful but also because of their wit, intelligence and talents that would come across on the phone line.

So, if you want to chat for free, you definitely should because it can help you feel better about yourself. There’s no need to worry about what people think when you are chatting anonymously on the phone. They won’t even know who you are unless you choose to tell them all about you. So get to chatting!